tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12343885.post911946983886238943..comments2023-11-03T09:19:49.032-04:00Comments on The Stupidsheet: Like It Is?Lippyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10280795930290894490noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12343885.post-23529519648471750092007-08-17T21:46:00.000-04:002007-08-17T21:46:00.000-04:00Honesty without tact is a cruel thing. Knowing whe...Honesty without tact is a cruel thing. Knowing when to speak the truth and when not to is all about context. And you're right, it takes wisdom to understand the context and know what to do.<BR/><BR/>A friend told me recently that I have a gift for finding the words to say something in just the right way. It was a nice compliment, but it's not so much a gift as something I learned by saying the choshahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07724444970503533654noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12343885.post-17240481203282567132007-08-16T11:31:00.000-04:002007-08-16T11:31:00.000-04:00Well said. I have a boss who prefaces all jerky c...Well said. I have a boss who prefaces all jerky comments with "I'm going to be honest with you" and the proceeds to tell us all how we didn't do things the way he did, so it must all be wrong and we don't have brains.<BR/><BR/>In my college training we learned that validation is an important skill - so whatever a person says, you can find some bit of good to agree upon. I think that effort Kristeeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13962392152495823796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12343885.post-55583980734677593032007-08-15T22:57:00.000-04:002007-08-15T22:57:00.000-04:00dang, how can you always be right? it's true thoug...dang, how can you always be right? it's true though, if you feel obligated to announce before hand "i need to be honest" whatever is going to follow probably doesn't need to be said - or can be said better by someone who doesn't have a foot in their mouth!Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09640073904501335756noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12343885.post-21736990844603167972007-08-15T21:50:00.000-04:002007-08-15T21:50:00.000-04:00Absolutely...I do agree 100 percent.(then again, I...Absolutely...I do agree 100 percent.<BR/>(then again, I might just be saying this to be nice)<BR/>Hmmm....you'll never know, will ya?<BR/><BR/>; )<BR/><BR/>NancyNancyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06136883196698277522noreply@blogger.com