Friday, May 01, 2009

A Look at the Status

I often get teased by my friends about the silly and dumb things I do...I've been called "Skirt", "Loser", "Lippy", all very endearingly I might add.

It's no secret that I'll sit and watch a "chick flick" with ya. Really. No big.

One of those that I felt a connection to was "Pretty Woman." And that was really because of one scene in particular, where the lead guy takes his Lady on a really extravagant date: private jet, fancy clothes, jewels and a night at the opera. It was just a beautiful few minutes in a really enjoyable film.

There was a time where I had the means to share a date like that with someone. It's always been kind of a dream of mine to have moments like that, and be with someone special enough to enjoy them with me. Someone who would indulge my wish to just treat someone as beautifully as I can.

I had the means, yes, but I didn't have the "Lady". A few years back, some very close friends from around the country came to visit and sort of indulge my desire to do a little pampering and spoiling, to feel "like that guy", but it wasn't a romantic situation.

I've had a major change in my life, in my style of life, and in what I can do. Typically, one would meet someone who he could share that little dream with at the time when he can no longer do it.

I'm going to elaborate more later on, but no matter what happens, I am going to have that "Pretty Woman" moment one day soon. I know it's probably not something you're glad you spent time reading about, but anyone who knows me knows how important this is to me. I have so much to fix, to work out, but there's nothing wrong with a little extra incentive, right?

My heart kinda needs that.

9 comments:

  1. I've actually never seen "Pretty Woman," but I think I get the type of date you're talking about. Something sort of magical...yes, it's something to strive for.

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  2. Ok. You're going to have every girl reading this all googly-eyed and madly in love with you. I mean, hello! What girl doesn't want the red carpet treatment from some great guy?! Again, why are you single?

    Freak--I can barely find a guy to take me out to dinner. Do you know any of 'your kind' out my way?

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  3. and you know what? there are plenty of us god girls who would love nothing more to have that. I know I would :)Love ya lippy

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  4. The best "Pretty Woman" moment will be cooking for her, treating her like a "woman", and being a true romantic man. That can be done anywhere, and for very little money :o)

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  5. Did you meet someone? Email me now! LY Cass

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  6. I'll go with you on your 'Pretty Woman' date! :D

    XOXO

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  7. Jimmy, I truly can't understand why the women around you can't see the catch you are. I get why you would love to do that for a special someone. I just honestly believe the real true someone, would hope you didn't feel you needed to do all that to know your worth spending time with. (Hugs)Indigo

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  8. This just made me smile... You're adorable.

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  9. im with cassie

    email now!

    pretty woman is my favorite movie btw...

    LYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY

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